Sunday, November 4, 2007

Whew... what a weekend!

As Melissa said earlier, I did indeed catch The Sickness. I'm not sure whether I got it from the traveling or the kid, but whatever it was moved fast and took no prisoners. Thankfully, after a crazy-fast onset and miserable peak, I seem to be back to normal - normal enough to post, anyhow...

So, as hinted at in earlier e-mails, it's been quite a trip, but Aden's been an amazing trooper. We weren't sure how the whole airport / airplane thing was going to go over, so we prepared his diaper bag as though we were going on a cross-country hiking trip - food, toys, multiple changes of clothes: the whole shebang. The airport was a little overwhelming, but he handled it in stride - once we got through the seemingly endless check-in / documentation / paying random taxes / getting through customs, we found a wide-open, lagely un-trod-upon area across from our gate, so Melissa and I spent a little time playing with Aden there, and letting him crawl around.

We weren't sure how he'd handle the airplanes, but all told, he did just fine. We had been told that he should suck on something during takeoff (so his little inner ears wouldn't get uncomfortable from the pressure). Of course, in classic chow-hound fashion, he downed his entire bottle before we'd finished getting up to speed... but amazingly, he didn't seem to care as we got up to altitude. In fact, with a little rocking, he passed out cold, and stayed asleep for over half the flight.

Charlotte was a little hairier than we had hoped - our sources had told us that immigration would take only fifteen minutes, and that the people there were very kind and helpful. And while I would not necessarily call them "UNkind" in our experience, they seemed a little too swamped to be all buddy-buddy. Basically, we got shunted off to a waiting area where we waited... and waited... and waited. Finally, when we realized that a) we only had 45 minutes left to make our flight and b) our little bundle of joy had dropped a bundle of his own in his pants, it was time to take action. Thankfully, through a stroke of luck, when I went out to see the head officer about getting ahead in the queue, she was working on our papers. So we got through that as quickly as we could, Melissa got Aden to the bathroom (where he proceeded to pee all over himself as she was changing him), and we managed to get out just in time to make our flight.

While Aden wasn't at all upset on the flight home, he was in prime Drunk Monkey mode. So we ended up passing him back and forth, trying to keep up with the crazy wiggling. Thankfully, he didn't shout too much - just a few crazy hollers at the end.

And then, like that, we were home! It was so amazing to wake up in our own bed, in our own house, in our own hometown. As I said to Melissa, "It feels bizarre to be able to walk around freely without having to wait for our names to be called over loudspearkers, or to need to present documents to someone."

On Friday, we took Aden to his first pediatrician's appointment. Dr. Rexford, his doc, was great, and proclaimed him to be in perfect health. We had been a bit worried about his weight, but she put those fears to rest, pointing out that he's a little guy, and his weight is in perfect proportion to everything else. Further, the Guatemalan pediatrician had suggested that Aden was lactose intolerant, which Dr. Rexford doubted. She suggested that we try phasing lactose formula back in, which we did, and sure enough there were no problems at all.

Saturday and Sunday were also big days, and went by in a blur. While Aden isn't quite sure about the giant dog-beast who keeps licking his face, he is positive that he'd like to catch one or both of the cats. The cats, of course, have other opinions about that. The big lesson that we received today was all about his rhythms - with the end of daylight savings today, we missed his nap window, which meant that by this evening, he was a total over-tired, overstimulated mess. Total meltdown ensued, but after an abbreviated bathtime and quick change, he was down for the night - he fell asleep in a record-breaking fifteen minutes. Lesson learned - no skipping naps from here on out!

We've decided to try to keep the blog up, both as a record for our far flung friends & family as well as for ourselves. Posting may become a little more spotty now that we're not cooped up in a hotel room, but we will do our best to keep it as regular as possible. And without further ado, here's a brief pictoral summary of the big weekend.

















8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oooh, those big dark eyes... I think we officially have heart-breaker on our hands!

Welcome home. travelers.

Adam Golaski said...

today elizabeth told me that while I was at the mall, I really ought to pick her up some cool shirts, with rock bands on it. and I thot, as I looked thru the racks for an Autechre jumper (alas, none to be found! Come on WARP, get with it. there's a new generation hungry to be pulverized by laptop beats), I thot, Jeremy is gonna dress his boy in all rock star shirts. obviously, ACDC shirts (available at hot topic in baby sizes!), and I've seen a slayer one ("I listen to Slayer with my Daddy"). in general, Aden's life is gonna be a non-stop rock party, at least until at age 13 he rebels, joins a harpsichord cult, listens to nothing "ludwig van" on his headphones, and dates a girl with her hair in a bun.

and you confirmed this with your blog entry today when you wrote, "In fact, with a little rocking, he passed out cold..." dude, how many times have you and melissa passed out after a little rocking? oh, right, mum's the word, you're parents now.

Congratualtions! I am so, so very excited. Zetta and I hope to come to Providence soon and see your family and show off ours. Aden's a great lookin' kid. a baby suits you and melissa--to the ground, as they say, as the plane touched down at T.F. Green.

jrmy said...

Aw... thanks, guys. It's true, Aden's got THE best heartbreaker eyes I have ever seen. And you better believe that he'll be repping for Australia's Finest (aka AC/DC) - it's only a matter of time until he's learning to play the drums to "Back in Black."

Andrea Fleck Clardy said...

All the way from Brazil, we want to add one more welcome home to you both and to your beautiful son with the gorgeous eyes. Can't wait to meet him!

love, Andy and Jon

Anonymous said...

He is beautiful! I am glad that you are keeping the blog up-we have been going each day to get our Aden fix. Be well (well, STAY well.)
Much love,
Ben

Anonymous said...

Welcome home! You must be having the time of your lives. We are so happy for you. He is adorable. Love the blog and all the photos.

-Lucy & Adam

Anonymous said...

so, so glad you are home & that jeremy is feeling better. we cannot wait to see the three of you! great pictures, btw. keep 'em coming...
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xoxo
bug & co

Anonymous said...

Love that silhouette pic of Melissa chasing Aden down in the airport. Look out cats, baby is cruisin'.

Welcome home guys; look for a package from us in the next week or so.